I wanted to blog about this much earlier but I was really upset back then and I don't want to be overly emotional and start typing crap in my blog...
It has been nearly a week since I heard something with have no basis and truth at all. And this came from a person who I thought was my friend. Not just a normal friend, but a good friend.
The kind of things that was said were so damaging to my career. And how the perception that people have of me. I started with asking why and what's her motive when I heard this but after conversations with my friends, I know there's no point asking all that question. I am a good friend and I have been keeping alot of friends over this year, some have been my friends for the past 28 years!
But, I remembered reading this from mrmanager's blog which I find very enlighting and manage to lift my spirit up!
I've come to the point where so much untruth has been said about me that it really doesn't matter what people want to think about me anymore. As long as I know what really happened, does it matter what people think or say? Like it or not, some people will always hate you no matter what and some people will always love you no matter what. Those who love me don't need my explanation and those who hate me don't care about my explanation. So, baik duduk diam diam, kan?
And what is really important at the end of the day : real friends who don't need your explanation but love you for who you are
There you have it. Not that I want to burn bridges, but what is the point of having a bridge which make you cross to the wrong side of the world. It's not cheap to build a bridge, and there's also maintenance cost tagged to it.
I am taking this very positively. At least, Allah is protecting me by showing me the kind of person my so called friend is and stop me from being further deceived. And with that, I end this entry with Alhamdulilah!
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3 normalies:
people .. people typically have to different 'topping' and 'filling'.
the topping usually shows the rendering of whether they like or dislike us.
the filling keeps the inner judgment(love or hate) and might be hatched whenever God wants it to be. only then we'll able to see the reality of it. - the loves and hates.
i used to be so contemplative towards what people might say about me. at the end.. i realize that there's no use to think of it since the more people hate us, the stronger the pillar of trust guaranteed by our loved ones.
correction for the first sentence: *two different topping and filling of their faces.
vagg - I love how you put things in different perspectives. So, bila nak turun KL. Kalau this Saturday bestlah, then you can come over to my house!
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