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Monday, 28 April 2008

Woman's heart

I had to work last Saturday, an important meeting scheduled on that day, hence I need to help my boss with the preparation. Considering there are other back logs pending in my current work load, I took the opportunity to complete that as well. Yelah, some people can accuse me of not having work to do but I know better, back stabber!

Once this is completed, I left the office around 2pm. My better half works on Saturday, so he came and pick me up. It's been quite sometime that I wanted to eat the famous Kari Kepala Ikan Kg Attap, so, we headed there. We arrived just in time, the shop was about to close. We were one of the very few last customers.

We then headed to our next destination...and this is the sad part.


One of my good fren just lost his baby. His wife had a threatened abortion and she was about 6 months pregnant. While trying to get the baby out, she experienced very severe bleeding which led to her losing 12 litres of blood and went into a critical condition. I got the news on Wednesday. His wife was in coma for 2 days and just regain her conciousness on Friday.

I can't imagine what she has been through and the worse part is, to safe her life, they had to remove her uterus(womb)....I think when I went to visit her(she is still in ICU), she was crying not only because of the baby, also the other permanent loss. Though they already have 3 kids, but being a woman, I know she will still feel that she is incomplete and the insecurity will of course creep in.

To my dear Mr BSN and wife, I can only lend my support and my prayers that everything will be alrite. I am so sorry for your loss and hope Allah will reward you with all the kindness in the world cause you are a good person and I know all of your friends are here to support and pray for you. Amin....
p/s : Hospital Ampang is so nice and beautiful, not like the typical government hospital. In fact, they look so much better than many of the private hospital that I've went to. Looks like we have to scrap our perception about government hospital after all...Below is the picture of their cafe...

3 normalies:

Jungle Playland said...

Oh my.. Kesiannya. For any mother to go thru that it is so devastating.

P/S: I agree with you on the perception of gomen's hosp. The new one are so unlike the old one yg so overcrowded..most new gomen hosp are very nice..

Anonymous said...

My elder sis has been tru the same thing except that she can conceive again tapi after losing a twin at 6 mths almost 4 yrs ago, she is still coping till now, takut nak pregnant. It will take time, tapi at least your friend dah ada 3 kids.

Liza said...

dot - memang sedih especially when knowing you have lost something permanently.. and i do hope all gomen hosp are like this

maya - i dont want to go through that, ever! she has all sons and just so happen this one was a girl..